I don't know if I would call myself an anguisette or not, as Phedre herself can be a switch, though she finds more pleasure in pain. Mainly, I believe their saying "Love As Thou Wilt" more than anything.
Ironically, about 4 months before I picked up Kushiel's Dart, I found my magickal name, a name that is more personal and meaningful that my given, and it is Briar Rose (Raizel), and I was always planing on getting some sort of rose tattoo done. I will be fashoning a tattoo similar to Phedre's marquee, but it will hold more of who I am that of who she was.
Hullo to everyone.